Hello friends!
So, as I said yesterday, I'm back with part 3 of the 12 Principles series. I know, 3 parts seems like a lot, but I feel this last one deserves an entry all on its own. This philosophy was assigned to my coworker Jorge. He really ran with it and did an excellent job. Most of the credit for this entry should go to him. Let's dive right into it...
12. Work with Love and Spirit...
In order to really understand what this principles means, let us first break it down. There are three words that truly give this philosophy its meaning; work, love, and spirit.
Work: There is a mathematical equation tied to this concept. Work is the amount of energy transferred by a force acting through a distance. In essence, work is energy. This means that we must put in real effort in order to consider each day a good day of work. When I think of energy, I think of excitement, enthusiasm, and zeal. Be enthusiastic about what you do. Make the most of every task and duty assigned to you. Put your heart into it, which leads me to...
Love: The Greeks broke love down into four different terms (the 4 loves). The first is Eros, which is a passionate and romantic love. This is shared between couples. The second love is Agape, which is called the "ideal love. This love is often a choice made out of principle. It is sacrificial, and unconditional; a love one is willing to die for. A successful marriage relationship consists of both Eros, and agape. The third love is Storge, which is natural affection. We see this with our parents. It cannot be explained, other than to say that our parents love us because we are a part of them. The final love is Philia, which is a virtuous, brotherly love. It is loyalty and affection for friends.
As we all know, to love is to place a great importance on an object or person. It connects you with that object of your affection deeper than anything else possibly could. When you love what you do, the passion and affection is obvious. As is the effort and energy you put into it.
Spirit: In Latin, the word means soul, courage, vigor or breath. When you put your soul into something, it becomes more than a task. It becomes embedded into who you are. It becomes part of your identity. To put your "breath" into something is to put your life into it. Our breaths keep us alive. Essentially, we are breathing life into our work.
If I may, let me give you some personal examples. I sing, create, and produce music. As you may know, this is no easy task. I would spend weeks locked into my little studio creating full songs from scratch. I was also in a rock band, and would spend weeks writing songs with my band. There is no greater example of working with love and spirit than a group of guys getting together through a shared love and passion for music, tirelessly expending energy and pouring their soul into chords, beats, lyrics, melodies, and harmonies. The end result may not appeal to everyone (different people have different musical preferences), but it made me happy because I knew my blood, sweat, tears, heart and soul had been poured into the music.
Another great example would be my wedding day. Over a year of insane planning, sleepless nights, budgeting, tasting, dieting, designing, shopping, premarital counseling, and countless other things...to put together one 5 hour event. No other day in my life has merited this principle more than June 7, 2010. That day redefined who I am as a person, in that it united me with another person until death parts us. My heart, soul, mind, and strength were poured into that year of preparation. I have never worked so hard in my life. Was it worth the effort? Absolutely!!
We must expend energy with great force and effort over distance in a passionate, ideal, and affectionate manner with all our breath, soul, and vigor! If you want to succeed at any task you are endeavoring to accomplish, you must work with love and spirit. True greatness in our work (whether in a piece of art, a business venture, a home cooked meal, or a late inning home run) comes only when we apply this ultimate principle into our work. If you can't see yourself doing this at your current place of employment, then maybe you should be thinking about getting into a new profession....
-Danny
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Thursday, August 26, 2010
Student Loans: A Necessary Evil or Just Evil….
In this day and age, we are being told to hold on to our monetary resources as much as possible. Don’t leave your jobs, don’t make any crazy purchases, and don’t spend any money whatsoever. It’s an odd thing, considering the insane buyer’s market we find ourselves in! So, do we take out that $200,000 dollar loan and buy a house because that house could potentially triple in value over the next 10 years? It is a considerable gamble, isn’t it? Making a huge investment, and not knowing for sure that it will pay off for you. The housing market is so fickle. It bends and breaks, then gets rebuilt again. Who knows what can happen. Will it get even worse before it gets better? Who knows! It’s possible your $200,000 dollar investment does pay off big time, and it’s also possible you buy the house and watch the value plummet even further. We can never say for sure. It is indeed a very dangerous and risky game. Does that mean you don’t play it?
To answer that question, I will pose another question: Since it is very possible you could end up broken hearted, do you take the risk of falling in love? There are many factors to consider, right? What if she cheats? What if she leaves me for another man? What if she is a serial killer who only kills serial killers? What if it just doesn’t work out and you end up a broken mess? It can turn out very badly for you! So, is it worth the risk? YES! When it’s bad, it’s bad...but when it’s right and it is real, it is the greatest thing humanly possible. Just about anything in this world that is worth having will require a risk. It has to be worth fighting for in order to be worth having. The same can be said of a house.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not telling you to be irresponsible and purchase a home when you know your job isn’t stable. Just as with love, be responsible and be sure you are making the right choice. Don’t marry someone you can’t stand, or that you know isn’t right for you! Be responsible with your investments, whether it be love, a car, a boat, or a house. Make sure your investment pays off as well. If you buy a boat, use it! If you buy a house, take care of it, and update it so that the value will remain high.
What does any of this have to do with student loans? Well, I think you may have already guessed. Let’s go over a few things before I really delve into it. In this age, it is extremely rare to find a student who doesn’t need student loans. I’m not talking about your private college and university students either. I’m talking about your average FIU or FSU student! Consider that every year, FIU’s tuition goes up. Also consider that the family income level for Pell Grant recipients is not based on a state per state or a family per family basis. It’s a general figure for all states. So, if it’s $15,000 per household member, and you live in New York City, chances are you won’t get much in the way of federal grants. The days of fully covered college are all but gone. Next year, my wife will not qualify for Pell Grants because we make too much for our two person household. That means she will have to finish her last semester at FIU with a student loan. She also had to take out loans at Miami Dade College when she was an out of state student. Many factors will impact your aid, and your needs for student loans.
All that being said, let’s get right down to dispelling the old time notion that student loans are evil. At this point, they are a necessary evil for most students. Obviously, if you don’t need them, you shouldn’t take them. That would go against the whole “be responsible” thing I mentioned earlier. If you can afford to fund your college education through grants and scholarships, then that is great for you, and you should take advantage of that. If you don’t qualify for grants, or scholarships, does that mean you should forget about college and just try to get by for the rest of your life with bottom of the barrel jobs? By no means! If there is one risk, one investment you absolutely have to pursue in our world today, it’s that of a college education. Believe me, without it you will not reach your maximum potential in life. It will be very difficult to make a career for yourself. Forget about a job. A job is a place you go to get paid. Most people hate their “jobs”. You need to find a career; a position and a field that gets you excited and will allow you to wake up in the morning and be happy about what you are going to be doing for the next 8-9 hours.
Again, I have to stress the whole responsibility thing here. Be wise, and very careful as you select a major. Unless you are 100% planning on attending graduate school, find a major and a career field that you will not only enjoy, but that will provide you with opportunities and monetary success. No one wants to shell out $30,000 in student debt to be making $8.50 per hour. Pick the right career for you! Do some research, be informed, be prepared to work hard, and try as hard as possible to be certain you are entering the right field.
Finally, back to the subject of the loan….Student loans are not the same as auto, or home loans. If you fail to pay your home loan, they take the house away from you. The same is true of an auto loan, a motorcycle, or a boat. It’s not the same with a student loan. Why? Well, with a student loan, the bank can’t get anything in return for it. If you don’t pay that home loan, and they take it away from you, they can just sell it to someone else and at least recover some of the value. It’s not so with a student loan. They can’t take your Bachelor’s degree away from you and sell it to the highest bidder. You earned it, that title and degree belongs to you, regardless of who financed it. For this reason, lenders are very flexible and willing to work with you on payment schedules and deferment. Of course, you have to have good reason to have your loans deferred, such as loss of employment, low income, or continued education. They work with you, because it’s better to get paid less over a longer period, then to get nothing at all. You really have to work hard and avoid every possible avenue of communication in order to fall into default!
If getting student loans is the make or break decision for you in regards to a college education, take that risk, make that investment! Without a college education, chances are you will be stuck in dead end situation after dead end situation! Don’t limit yourself and your potential! As John Connor once said, “The future's not set. There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.”
To answer that question, I will pose another question: Since it is very possible you could end up broken hearted, do you take the risk of falling in love? There are many factors to consider, right? What if she cheats? What if she leaves me for another man? What if she is a serial killer who only kills serial killers? What if it just doesn’t work out and you end up a broken mess? It can turn out very badly for you! So, is it worth the risk? YES! When it’s bad, it’s bad...but when it’s right and it is real, it is the greatest thing humanly possible. Just about anything in this world that is worth having will require a risk. It has to be worth fighting for in order to be worth having. The same can be said of a house.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not telling you to be irresponsible and purchase a home when you know your job isn’t stable. Just as with love, be responsible and be sure you are making the right choice. Don’t marry someone you can’t stand, or that you know isn’t right for you! Be responsible with your investments, whether it be love, a car, a boat, or a house. Make sure your investment pays off as well. If you buy a boat, use it! If you buy a house, take care of it, and update it so that the value will remain high.
What does any of this have to do with student loans? Well, I think you may have already guessed. Let’s go over a few things before I really delve into it. In this age, it is extremely rare to find a student who doesn’t need student loans. I’m not talking about your private college and university students either. I’m talking about your average FIU or FSU student! Consider that every year, FIU’s tuition goes up. Also consider that the family income level for Pell Grant recipients is not based on a state per state or a family per family basis. It’s a general figure for all states. So, if it’s $15,000 per household member, and you live in New York City, chances are you won’t get much in the way of federal grants. The days of fully covered college are all but gone. Next year, my wife will not qualify for Pell Grants because we make too much for our two person household. That means she will have to finish her last semester at FIU with a student loan. She also had to take out loans at Miami Dade College when she was an out of state student. Many factors will impact your aid, and your needs for student loans.
All that being said, let’s get right down to dispelling the old time notion that student loans are evil. At this point, they are a necessary evil for most students. Obviously, if you don’t need them, you shouldn’t take them. That would go against the whole “be responsible” thing I mentioned earlier. If you can afford to fund your college education through grants and scholarships, then that is great for you, and you should take advantage of that. If you don’t qualify for grants, or scholarships, does that mean you should forget about college and just try to get by for the rest of your life with bottom of the barrel jobs? By no means! If there is one risk, one investment you absolutely have to pursue in our world today, it’s that of a college education. Believe me, without it you will not reach your maximum potential in life. It will be very difficult to make a career for yourself. Forget about a job. A job is a place you go to get paid. Most people hate their “jobs”. You need to find a career; a position and a field that gets you excited and will allow you to wake up in the morning and be happy about what you are going to be doing for the next 8-9 hours.
Again, I have to stress the whole responsibility thing here. Be wise, and very careful as you select a major. Unless you are 100% planning on attending graduate school, find a major and a career field that you will not only enjoy, but that will provide you with opportunities and monetary success. No one wants to shell out $30,000 in student debt to be making $8.50 per hour. Pick the right career for you! Do some research, be informed, be prepared to work hard, and try as hard as possible to be certain you are entering the right field.
Finally, back to the subject of the loan….Student loans are not the same as auto, or home loans. If you fail to pay your home loan, they take the house away from you. The same is true of an auto loan, a motorcycle, or a boat. It’s not the same with a student loan. Why? Well, with a student loan, the bank can’t get anything in return for it. If you don’t pay that home loan, and they take it away from you, they can just sell it to someone else and at least recover some of the value. It’s not so with a student loan. They can’t take your Bachelor’s degree away from you and sell it to the highest bidder. You earned it, that title and degree belongs to you, regardless of who financed it. For this reason, lenders are very flexible and willing to work with you on payment schedules and deferment. Of course, you have to have good reason to have your loans deferred, such as loss of employment, low income, or continued education. They work with you, because it’s better to get paid less over a longer period, then to get nothing at all. You really have to work hard and avoid every possible avenue of communication in order to fall into default!
If getting student loans is the make or break decision for you in regards to a college education, take that risk, make that investment! Without a college education, chances are you will be stuck in dead end situation after dead end situation! Don’t limit yourself and your potential! As John Connor once said, “The future's not set. There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.”
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